Alan Kay said "OO" was about messaging, not objects and drew a parallel to biological cells.
His views are enticing, but vague. The way I understand it is something like a Cellular Automata.
In a Cellular Automata there's a grid of cells that can be in a variety of states. Then an update event is sent to all the cells. In response, the cells update their state based on their own state and the state of their neighbors.
So if we assume...
Grid => Software System
Cell => Object
Update Rule => Event/Message
Then we have a starting point. Locality differs (unless we define neighbors as objects that are connected), and there isn't one update rule, but a variety of messages/events that objects can respond to.
Having used cellular automata, I'm aware of their power and the awesome global emergence that arises from local interactions. Thinking of this applied to the sphere of objects is breath-taking.
Or perhaps to put it another way, it's an extreme event driven system in which a network of objects forms the architecture, (global?) events define the information flow, and the interaction of these objects defines the system behavior.
Is this understanding correct? If not, I'd love clarification and even examples of code written in this message system (vs. code that's not), to make this concrete.