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 "Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
 and remember what peace there may be in silence.
 As far as possible without surrender
 be on good terms with all persons.
 Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
 and listen to others,
 even the dull and the ignorant;
 they too have their story." 

 ~ Max Ehrmann, Desiderata